What does it take?

Dear Friends,

To all of my married friends out there what does it take to land a man? You have all done nicely. All of your men take care of you and treat you special. I am not finding such luck out there in the dating scene. Here are a few of my problems:

1. No Marriage

Guys today want to get the milk for free without buying the cow..or something like that. They try to convince me to lighten up but I won't buy it and they make me feel crazy for wanting more than a midnight moment of joy..oh well these guys are easy to turn down, but make me feel less hopeful that I will EVER meet the right guy.

2. No dating

Yes, you heard it from me. They want you to pay for yourself these days. And then they get the right to tell you how you don't measure up..oh well these guys are easy to avoid as well. But, they make the light at the tunnel seem a little less than visible.

3. Finding the one

Well I was perfectly happy in a perfectly awful relationship for 2.5 years. So I guess I know absoutely nothing about finding the "one" but please post your comments and let me know your keys to success.

K